I dont know what to do I AM GOING MAD! I just cant LET GO! I have fallen in LOVE with an GUY THAT CANT COMMIT!

Brief story, met a guy around 10 months ago, we gelled right from the start we were like best friends as well as seeing each other. We bonded very very well especially on a intellectual levels we would be up all night talking for hours. But discovered this guy is a clic commitment phobic that finds a relationship a severe threat to his freedom and says that he just isnt ready to settle down yet for his own personal reasons he works long hours during the week and never even really has the chance to see his daughter. I of course wanted a relationship and he suggested that we take a step back and remain only friends (without ) as he couldnt give me a relationship or any commitments at this present time. He said he feels that I am a very articulate, intellegent, good looking girl with a heart of gold, but just isnt looking for a relationsip at this stage.